Did You Know This 5 Surprising Reasons Why Women Hate Using Condoms?

Men have always been accused of being against condom usage. There are a lot of reasons why this is, but this does not mean it is a male-only challenge. Not only do condoms feel slippery and cold, but they remove a level of intimacy that comes from going skin with your partner. Some women hate condoms for these reasons below.

1. NO KIDS: Some ladies do everything they can to avoid their man using condoms. This is because they want children. They feel the best way to totally own a man is to be pregnant for him.

2. INFECTIONS: Although condoms are prescribed to reduce the spread of infections. Ironically, the latex allergies which are the strongest deterrent against STDs cause women to end up with yeast infections and more.Yeast infection simply means that too many yeast cells are growing in the woman’s “private part.” It is very common but don’t let it bother you too much because the treatment is simple.

3. CONDOMS BREAK: It is better not to use a condom at all if it will end up breaking. Sometimes, while the heat is on and there is a high level of friction, a condom could break thereby exposing the woman to all dangers associated with casual s*x. So, some women feel ‘why the need’ and prefer to be raw  with their man.

4. IT REDUCES PLEASURE: In fact men mostly complain that the use of condoms do not enable them get maximum sensa tion. Women are also not left out. Condoms reduce the level and passion one could have during !ntimacy. This is a major reason some women hate condoms.

5. SMELL OF THE LATEX: Some women have attributed the smell of condoms to that of a balloon. Condom latex has a particular odious smell. Lots of users (male and female) have complained about this. As a result, these days, condoms are made in different flavours (banana, apple, strawberry, etc).

5 ROMANTIC QUESTIONS THAT CAN MAKE A GIRL WET INSTANTLY…

All the time. It’s a good thing though or you wouldn’t really think she’s worth the effort. But sometimes, it’s easier to turn on a girl than date her.

When it comes to dating a girl, she instinctively knows you’re hitting on her. If you discreetly warm her up to your flirty touches, you’ll see that seducing a girl can be rather easy if she thinks you’re a great guy.

If you know how to be discreet, you can make a girl fall for you or even turn her on in just a few conversations.

But here, we’ll get to seducing a girl with just 20 simple questions, preferably via texts. It’s easy to ask these 20 questions when you’re sitting with her but if she feels uncomfortable or believes you’re trying too hard or going too fast, you may end up blowing your chances and you’ll have a hard time making her like you again.

On the other hand, by texting a few sexy questions to a girl, you can always make it seem like a joke if she doesn’t warm up to you. It’s easy, safe and a foolproof way to turn a girl on from a distance.

Use these questions and if you charm the girl the right way, you could charm the pants off her and make out with her by the time you reach the twentieth question!

Just use these questions and keep the conversation going by answering any other questions she may ask. It’ll all work out in your favor if you play it carefully and stick to these 20 questions all along the way.

And the best part, it’ll work wonders if she’s your girlfriend or even if she’s a flirty girl you have a crush on. Ask her these questions late at night for best results!

#1. Are you alone?

This question is perfect to understand if she’s idle and all alone at home. You obviously can’t flirt or talk sex if her friends are around her. Say something bold like “I wish I could be there with you” when she reciprocates with an affirmative.

#2. What are you doing right now?

Play it nice and slow, this can help you be certain that she’s alone and bored enough to give you her complete attention.

#3. Do you like cuddling when you lie in bed?

Warm her up to a flirty conversation without overstepping the line. This can help open her up by talking about cuddling with someone else.

#4. What do you wear when you go to bed?

What are you wearing? A curious question that’s perfect to ask a girl when she’s in bed already. It’s personal and yet not too sexual. Say something like “Gosh, I can only imagine how cute you look right now” when she describes herself.

If it’s your girlfriend, ask her what she’s wearing and if she doesn’t mention her lingerie *which she may not without a bit of coaxing*, ask about her lingerie and also the color. A perfect start.

#5. What do you think you look sexiest in?

Get her to talk sexual by talking about her sexy clothing. It’s flattering and definitely sexual..

My dad broke my virginity when I was thirteen. Should I tell my current boyfriend?

I do not have a life of my own and it’s really eating me deep. Have you ever felt like sharing a secret? One you know could destroy your total existence?

I’m not sharing this because I want you to be moved or perhaps feel I need mental support, I just need your genuine advice.

During my revelation here, I said to myself “what do I have to loose, my identity will be protected and I expect them to respect it”

I was 9 when my mother passed away… what ever killed her, I don’t have an idea all I know was on that faithful day my dad yelled repeatedly that I get water and the car keys. I was young and also the only child, my mum always thought my dad spoilt me with gifts and for that I hated her. More so, when my dad told me she wasn’t coming back again, I smiled… deep down I was happy.

Three month after she died my dad’s love increased but then it got really intimate… I felt in love with my dad. At thirteen, I began developing urges and my dad was the closest I could talk to. Few months after my birthday my dad kissed me, it was really not the same kiss he always gave me, this time he said I reminded him of my mum. I was pleased and I kissed him back, same night about 11pm I was de flowered, although it was painful but I still wanted more of it somehow. I never told anyone, there wasn’t even anyone close enough to tell except my dad.

Our affair has been on until I met someone, I won’t mention his name cause he might just figure out.

He’s been good to me and honestly I’m beginning to have a separate feeling, different from what I felt for my dad.

I’m 26 now, for 2 years now I’ve been with him and stopped sleeping with my father. In a way my father agrees that I’m old enough to know what I Truly want .

Few days back on valentines day he proposed and I’ve never felt this happy in my life.

Now my challenge, he looked me in the eye and said “don’t ever keep anything from me, not even the tiniest secrets” I feel like he knows, may be sees through me.

Please help me out. What should I do? Should I tell him about my father? I’m confused. This is the only medium I can use to reach out without being seen. I need your help now…..

KWA WANANDOA,"Mwenza" wako hajiwezi!!!!Unafanyaje???

Kuishi wawili ni kuvumiliana na kuona mengi, miongoni mwa hayo ni hili, inaweza ikatokea Mume ana Matatizo katika utendaji au Mke akawa ndo mwenye Tatizo. Ikiwa hali ipo hivyo tunafanyaje? Si vizuri baada ya kuona mapungufu ya mwenza wako ukaamua kutoka na kutafuta Nje wa kuziba Pengo. Suluhisho ni wote kwa pamoja kuungana na kulitafutia ufumbuzi wa kudumu tatizo husika, iwe ni kwa dawa za hospitali au tiba mbadala, na kama ni mapungufu ya kielimu wanaone wataalam wa mambo hayo wawape elimu na ushauri utakaowafaa hatimaye kuzidi kuilinda na kuienzi ndoa yenu!

14 Things You Shouldn’t Be Afraid To Tell A Guy In The Bedroom

1. Don’t be afraid to ask to use sex toys, especially ones that you’re comfortable with, like that trusty vibrator that always gets you off. Don’t be afraid that your guy will get offended. If he can have an awesome orgasm, don’t you deserve to as well?

2. Ask him where he plans on coming. I know this doesn’t feel that romantic and can be a little bit awkward to approach, but it’s better than having an impromptu on-the-middle-of-your-back situation that makes you feel sticky and not so good. If there’s somewhere you prefer other than inside the condom, definitely let him know beforehand.

3. Tell him what positions you prefer. Ask for anything specific that you know will get you off. What turns you on? Neck kissing, whatever turns you on before the big moment. If you’re specific, it could even turn into some dirty talk.

4. It’s ok to ask him to stop rubbing your boobs like they’re your clit. If you pretend something feels good and guys have had girls pretending they like it their whole lives, no one will learn anything from the situation.

5. You can ask him if he’s cool with period sex, rather than evading sex completely when you’re really horny, or having an “oops, I guess I got it today” dishonest moment. You’ll be able to tell if he’s a mature adult as opposed to a grossed-out little boy based on this conversation, so it’s a good one to have anyway.

6. Ask for him to go down on you! Or to adjust the technique. Guys sure aren’t afraid to ask for blowjobs, or to tell a girl if she’s using too much teeth, so you deserve to be treated like a princess when he goes downtown as well. The better he makes you feel, the better he’ll feel.

7. Ask him for a condom. Don’t feel guilt-tripped into doing anything without it. This is something that’s fine to be stern about. STI’s and accident pregnancies are nothing to mess with.

8. Also, don’t feel guilty for not going down on him if there’s not a clean or decent grooming situation down there. If it’s a not so aromatic full-grown bush, politely decline and don’t feel forced into it.

9. Don’t be shy about asking to watch porn. No matter what kind it is. Almost guaranteed this will turn a guy on, and there’s nothing to be ashamed of. 

10. Rough sex can be a tricky and sensitive subject to manage. If you want it, ask for hair pulling, give boundaries, give a safe word, and guide his hands. Safe rough is the key. 

11. Don’t be afraid to ask to be more submissive one time and more dominant another. It’s not weird to want to jump his bones dominatrix style one time and have your hands behind your back another.

12. Talk to him about how he doesn’t have to last 45 minutes for you to be satisfied; guys can actually think that. Sometimes endurance can just be painful.

13. Ask him to go slower, or to change his method. Don’t be worried about offending someone mid-sex. What’s more offensive is not listening to your own body – hey, he still gets to touch your luscious skin so it’s a win-win for him!

14. Ask for it again, if you weren’t satisfied once. Again, you can’t be afraid of offending someone for the sake of your own pleasure. Try something new this time – dudes just need a refractory period so don’t ask for it incredibly fast after the first session because nobody is Superman.

7 Reasons You Really Should Sleep Naked

Sleeping naked is a touchy subject. Not everyone is a fan of this. Some people feel more comfortable sleeping in pajamas or a nightgown; I get it. It’s a personal preference However, there are a few reasons that make sleeping naked sound like a good idea. 

1. It is easier.

You can’t argue with this one. It is a lot easier. You don’t have to think about what pajamas to wear or which t-shirt you’ll be sleeping in tonight. You can just take your evening shower and not worry about anything else. You don’t have to bother with picking comfy underwear and worrying about your clothes getting wet because your hair is still wet from the shower.

2. Your lady parts get to breathe.

We don’t think about this too often, but some parts of our body are forever covered. Think about it. Your arms get to breathe when you’re wearing a t-shirt, your legs get to breathe when you’re wearing shorts, your tummy gets to breathe if you wear a crop-top. Your lady parts, however, are always covered unless you’re in the shower or taking a bath. How about letting them breathe once in a while?

3. It will boost your self-esteem.

This might sound a bit strange. How could sleeping naked possibly increase your self-esteem? Easily. When you sleep naked, you get used to your naked body. In our everyday life, a lot of us struggle with body image issues, and we try to cover up as much of our body as possible. When we sleep dressed, we’re doing the same. So sleeping naked will give you an excellent opportunity to come to terms with your naked body and stop feeling shy about it; therefore you will become more confident.

4. You’ll look hotter.

This is closely connected with self-esteem. When you feel confident, you look more attractive. There is nothing sexier than a confident person. It shows in the way you move, the way you hold yourself, the way you talk. A lot of of people think the bar for “hot” means being a Victoria’s Secret model. The truth is, anyone can look hot if they’re confident and are comfortable with their body. Sleeping naked helps with body confidence. 

5. You will sleep better.

If you’re one of those people who keep waking up in the middle of the night cause they feel too cold, or too hot, or just too uncomfortable – sleeping naked will change that. Our body temperature fluctuates at night. When you sleep naked, it’s easier for your body to adjust to the temperature around you, and you won’t have to wake up because you feel too hot. As a result, you’ll have a better and deeper night’s sleep.

6. It can make you feel happy and free.

Feeling more comfortable is a direct result of a good, uninterrupted night’s sleep. When your sleep is not interrupted, and you don’t wake up multiple times in the middle of the night, you wake up feeling more rested and with more energy. You’ll feel better and happier. You’ll be surprised how much a good night’s sleep can influence your daily life.

7. You’ll have more and better sex.

This one is obvious. When you sleep naked, especially if you live with your partner, you’re more likely to have sex. Suddenly all casual touches like a brush of a hand or a hug are much more sensual because there’re no barriers between your bodies. As we all know, practice makes perfect, so the more sex you have, the better you get at it. So go ahead and enjoy yourselves!