"MY NAME IS ANGEL, AM SO DESPERATE...AM LOOKING FOR A MAN TO COMFORT ME"

My name is Angel, living in Dar...I broke up with my boy and it's eating me inside...but I can not go back to him because of what he did to me. Now, am looking for a new one atleast to help me forget him 

PHOTOS:HUU NI MUONEKANO MPYA WA ZARI 'zarithebosslady'

Spent the public holiday literally doing nothing. Happy youth day South Africa. My life isn't perfect, but am thankful for every thing I have 

HUDDAH MONROE scared to death ….. You Will Never Believe What Safaricom Did to Her

Huddah claims that she is scared to death after a she bought a Safaricom line and it turned up to be a dead Indian’s phone number.

Huddah could not understand why callers kept asking her how she got that line. Here is what she wrote on social media;

Dear @safaricomltd , Today I bought a new line and my phone can’t stop ringing . The callers keep asking me where I got my number from. The callers of Indian decent claim my newly acquired number belongs to their DEAD brother!!!!!!!!!!What is really going on ? Do you people repeat numbers? Or make them twice? What if you repeat numbers aftera while and maybe it belongs to someone who got murdered? Please help me with answers!!!! I’m scared to death!!

MATILDA:' WANAUME HUWA WANADATA WAKIZIONA HIZI HIPS ZANGU'

Things That You Must Do on a First Date

We all want our first dates to be perfect. But do you really how to impress a girl on a date without overdoing it?
When you hook up on a first date with a gorgeous girl, it is understandable that you want to go all out and please her, maybe by showing her that you’re manly and in command, or by behaving like a doormat.
But there may be a few things that could be overdone and you might just blow any opportunity of getting to the next date.
The Huggable Understanding Guy tells you where to draw the line between doing the right things, and overdoing them. Here are 8 tips for first dates that every man should know to have a successful first date

#1 ARE YOU IN CONTROL?
It’ss important to be in control and make those tough decisions, like calling the waiter, deciding where to go, etc. when you’re with your date.
It’s not easy when you get all groggy and drool while staring at this beautiful woman beside you.
But there may be times when your behavior borders rudeness and arrogance. Swearing, snapping your fingers to call waiters and bad behavior is just unacceptable. So if you want to hold on to the hope of getting a second date, then learn to be courteous and gentle, not just with her, but with everyone around.

#2 TRYING TOO HARD
You may have waited since you were in first grade before the both of you got together for this date. You may have marked this moment in your secret diary and stored it as one of the best moments of your life. But you know what? She doesn’t have to know that!
She’ss still contemplating and figuring is she’s having a good date. Don’t ruin the moment by droning on about how happy you are.
She knows that you’re happy, but don’t blow it all out, all through the date. Make her wonder if you’re having a great time. Don’t give in to the chase even before it begins!

#3 DON’T SHOW OFF YOUR INDEPENDENCE
You love hanging out and bonding with your guy friends, and every Friday in your calendar might be allotted for hanging out with the boys. But saying that out aloud on your first date could actually turn out bad for you.
You might think that it shows your independence and confidence, and that you also respect her space and are not going to be a clingy boyfriend, but it actually works otherwise. She might think that your life is just too rigid.
Or worse, it may seem like you’re trying to set boundary rules even before both of you get steady.It’ss almost like you’re already imposing a rule on her. What did you think, that she would like it?!

#4 ANSWERING PHONE CALLS
Now no one’s telling you not to pick up calls or that you have to leave your cell phone at home, but you should know how to use it well.
Make sure your calls are short, even if you have to answer them. Don’t cut her in mid sentence to answer the call. Wait until she’s done with her sentence, and then excuse yourself, if only for a moment.
Another way you can actually make her feel more special is by answering the call, only to tell the person that you’re with someone who’s very important to you, and whatever it is, you could talk about it the next day! You could also add a cheeky grin to stop you from appearing pompous.
Now why wouldn’t that make just about anyone beam with happiness?
To top that, you could hang up, and then say, ‘Sorry, that was Bill Gates and he’s just so annoying.’ You could just laugh off that little joke of yours, and show her that you can be humorous at the same time!

#5 BE TOO CONCERNED
Remember, you’re out with someone who’s matured enough to think and take care of herself. You can ask her occasionally ifshe’ss comfortable, or if she requires something.
But don’t keep popping the same question to her again and again. It can get really annoying. Just enjoy the conversation and relax. Don’t push your protective and concerned act too far.
And if you find yourself running out of things to talk about, stop asking her ifshe’ss having fun. Instead, be comfortable and speak about something else. Usually the four magic words – music, work, movies, and shopping, will take the conversation really far and you can also have a great time getting to know each other.
You could also use the awesome six conversation starters on a date to start great conversations. And another thing, if you both have something in common in these four words, then you can go ahead and book your next date’s dinner reservation.

#6 REVEAL TOO MUCH
It’s fun to be with this girl who’s so much fun to hang out with. And you want to prove that you’re a great guy to hang out with to her. So what do you do? You tell her about all your brave, silly and hilarious encounters.
You start off right from the first time you ripped your pants in first grade, and go on all the way to the latest incident. Stop! First of all, she doesn’t want to know all of that, even if she seems like she loves hearing all of that. And secondly, spare some loving and exploring for later.
You don’t want her to know everything about you on the first date itself, do you? Give her a chance to learn more about you by herself. Let there by mystery in your togetherness, and let her wonder what else you have in store for her, the next time you meet up.

#7 YOUR VIEW AND HERS
This is a very touchy situation to handle.It’ss obvious that both of you have different views about different things. Arguing about anything is a big turn off for a girl.
Anything about religion, politics, or moral issues should be avoided at any cost. And even if this does crop up, don’t tell her outright that you don’t want to talk about it, instead try sweeping the topic under the carpet without a big fuss.
Just answer the question in a vague and abrupt manner, and bring up something more exciting to talk about.
Do not be dominating about any of your views, or be very boisterous about voicing your opinions.
Even if she supports something you’re firmly against, just give a small laugh, and tell her ‘Well, that’s one thing that i’m not too sure of, because I’ve always felt the other way about that’ and complete the sentence saying, ‘but I obviously respect your view, and our difference in opinions.’ Anyways tell me about the last time you’ And change the topic as subtly as you can.

#8 GETTING DISTRACTED!
Well, this is really easy to fall for, and one of the things you have to pay the most attention to. When you’re out with a lady, she expects to be treated like one.
Don’t sit across the table and dream or doze off. Worse, don’t squint your eyes so that you can focus one eye on her, while the other eye ogles that girl with those never ending legs walking past you in short skirts. Pay a lot attention to her, and listen to what she has to say.
And for crying out loud, is she’s wearing something with a deep neckline, stop staring at her bosoms and trying to judge how much more cleavage is concealed! This is not the time, and definitely not the place either.

Concentrate on her face, and have a great conversation. Be attentive to her needs. If you see her glass of water half empty, have a waiter refill it. If she wonders what ‘a-la-carte’ means and if you can’t figure it out, then let the waiter help you with that. Basically don’t distract yourself with things that can be put on hold, and pay a lot of attention to her needs.
Staring at a girl’s cleavage is a big no-no too, unless, of course, you know the art of staring at a girl’s cleavage like a gentleman.

If you can pay attention to these little details, it’s more than definite that your first date would only take you further into the next, and then the next.
Every date has a potential to be a great one just as long as you remember the things you need to avoid on a first date, and remember the things you need to do. So go on, enjoy yourself. Have a perfect first date!

DALILI ZA MWANAMKE KUFIKA KILELENI WAKATI WA TENDO LA NDOA

"I CAME TANZANIA TO MEET MY BOYFRIEND, BUT HE LEFT ME AND I HAVE NOWHERE TO GO, I NEED HELP"

My name is Linda, from Rwanda...I had a boyfriend from Tanzania...And last Week i came to Dar, we met and we stayed in a hotel for 5 days....but he left me there. I have nowhere to go...Anyone to help  

DON'T TRY TO MISS THIS FROM SHISH BABY....YOU MUST SEE HERE

ZARI ashindwa kuvumilia na kuamua kuwapa makavu wale wanaomuandama kwenye mitandao

Shemeji yetu Zari ambaye ni mrembo kutoka Uganda ambaye toka amekua mapenzini na Mtanzania staa wa bongofleva Diamond amekua akipokea comments tofautitofauti kwenye page yake ya Instagram, June 28 2015 ameamua kuyaandika haya tena mengine kwa kutumia lugha ya kiswahili baada ya kushindwa kuvumilia.

Waliomkasirisha ni wale wanaokosoa uvaaji wake na kuendelea kumfatilia ambapo alianza kwa kuandika >>>’Mnikome, maisha yangu yanakuhusu nini wewe, nayako hayanihusu mimi kabisa ata kidogo….oh sijui high heels, mara nguo imembana, sijui anapikia heels,pili pili hujakula wewe inaakuwashia nini? Mvae madera zenu mfunge mkanda mpite kimya kimya. Kwanini unastress????‘

Hii ndio picha aliyoiambatanisha na hayo maneno.

Ameendelea kwa kuandika mengine kwa kiingereza na nitatafsiri kwa wino mwekundu>>> ‘HAYA NI MAISHA YANGU na sasa your all Gods’ judges now…. how many people do we know that wear hijab but have very dirty ugly hearts? (ni watu wangapi tunawajua wanavaa Hijab lakini mioyo yao sio misafi? ni wangapi wenu mnaigiza kuwa wasafi kwenye hizi siku 30 lakini miezi 11 iliyobaki ni waovu? )How many of you act so straight for these 30 days but the last 11 months your the worst monsters this world has ever seen’

Kwenye sentensi nyingine kaandika >>> ‘Now u wana come here and judge my faith by the dress???? (sasa mnakuja kujudge imani yangu kutokana na nguo? Allah bless all of you….atleast I ain’t acting snitchy, am being ME. And oh, if you happen not to like what you see in ur news feed (my page) U always have 3 options, Block yourself, unfollow ama fast forward coz if your still following na you exercise your fingers kuwakya matusi page yangu, babe your just an obsessed fan if not a confused admirer dah majirani Habari nakazi mnayo……like I always say, no bad vibes from me. So stay blessed

How To Talk To A Woman On The Phone – Making That First Call

It feels amazing when you see a woman who is absolutely beautiful and you are able to get her to hand over her digits. You feel like you are on top of the world, like you could do just about anything you wanted to. And then… you come down a bit when you get home and you realize that you still have to make that first phone call. You know that just getting her number is not enough, not if you want the story to play out a little more.

You are going to have to make a good impression and that makes you feel a little bit nervous. You don’t want to say anything stupid that will make her think your just some goof. You don’t want to say anything that is going to offend her, cause all she has to do is hang up on you and you’ll have lost her. You want things to go smoothly so that you can escalate things enough where you can get that first date with her.

Making that first call is important, it can be a bit stressful and make you feel a little insecure. It has to be done though.

YOU ARE NOT SHAKESPEARE SO DON’T TRY TO BE 

Trying to be someone you are not is never a good thing to do. Not if you want to make a good impression and you want things to go smoothly. So, if you are not the kind of guy who can spit poetic verses at the drop of a dime, don’t even bother trying.

You really don’t have to.

Think of the first call as a way to re-establish that connection that she must have felt with you when she handed you her phone number. Think of it as being a way to build on that connection to the point that she wants a little more. You don’t have to completely win her over just yet. You just have to create some kind of anticipation inside of her so that she’ll be inclined to agree when you ask her to meet up with you.

YOU DON’T HAVE TO TALK FOR HOURS ON END 

For most guys, trying to keep the conversation brief is going to be a good thing. It can’t be too brief, you need time to build up her anticipation. On the other hand, going too long can be a bad thing. You don’t want her to be excited to hear from you and excited about the chance to hang out with you again… only to end up bored with you because you don’t know when to hang up.

Calling up a woman that has just given you her number for the first time can be an interesting experience, but as long as you don’t try to come across as someone who you are not, or try to make it last too long – you should be able to find a way to escalate things just enough that you can ask her out and have her say yes to you.

You have to be able to make good conversation with women if you are going to get good at getting dates and that does include the phone talk.

Photos: Kim Kardashian goes braless

Kim K was seen buying a bra 2 days ago but I guess she decided to forego wearing one as she stepped out with her hubby to take a helicopter trip to Glastonbury Festival. More photos after the cut..

9 stimulation techniques to pep up your man's sexual appetite

Tired of your man's lack lustre libido? Want him to make passionate LOVE to you? Follow these nine stimulation techniques to pep up your man's sexual appetite.


1. Tie Him Up: Take control and get your man all tied up. Buy silky tights to tie him up loosely to the bed post above his head. Keep his head propped up with a pillow so that he can see your wild moves. All guys love being dominated and you will get a high by watching your guy's desire for you rise.

2. Wet Pleasures: Guys just love making out in the shower. Kissing under a shower is a sure fire way of getting the sexual action kick started. Work up lather and sensuously wash each others' bodies. It will leave you feeling fresh for the real action to follow.

3. Girlie Groping: Ignite your youthful lust by making out in the last row of a cinema or indulging in some heavy petting on the couch until you are both hot and ready.

4. Dress it up: Walk around the house clad in lacy underwear and some killer stilletoes. Your man will love nothing more than to watch you strut sexily around the house.

5. Dirty dancing: Erotic slow dancing is great tool of seduction. Enjoy a sensual dance which is the perfect appetiser for some raunchy bedroom antics.

6. Mirror image: Learn to master body language techniques to let him know you are interested in sex. Try and mimick some of his actions to turn him on. Don't copy everything he does. Instead if he leans towards you, lean into him at the same time, making passionate eye contact all the while.

7. Maximise a massage: Make your man lie down on the bed and apply warm oil on his aching body. Use lingering sensuous strokes along his back and down his legs making sure his body relaxes.

8. In the outdoors: Foreplay doesn't need to be restricted to the bedroom; all men love sex in the open. Make love under the stars and land in sexual heaven.

9. Teasing talk: Men too love a bit of naughty talk. Whisper sweet nothings into his ear describing all the things you would like to do to him, or have him do to you. Alternatively send him a sexy SMS letting him know he is in for a treat.

JINSI YA KUMRIDHISHA MWANAMKE KITANDANI (KWA WANANDOA) PAMOJA NA VIDEO ZAKE

Kut0***** ni raha Jamani asikwambie mtu haswa ukimpata mwenza anayejua nini anafanya awapo kwenye mazingira hayo...


Wengi wetu tunatombana kwa
kukariri...ila kumkuna vizuri mwanamke na akuone wewe ni kidume yahitaji uwe na pumzi na akili yako yote uiweke 
Katika mazingira uliyopo ili kuweza kuifanya mboo isimame muda mrefu....

★PUMZI
mwanaume ni vizuri ukipendelea kufanya mazoezi kiasi ya kukuwezesha kuwa na pumzi..na sio mazoezi ya kukujaza kifua nk
Mazoezi yanayohitajika ni yale ya kukujengea pumzi ya ndani mda kidogo na hii ni kutokana na ukweli ni kwamba °°mwanaume ukivuta pumzi ndani unachelewa kumwaga/kupiz na mwanamke akibana pumzi anawahi kukojoa°°

★mawazo/akili
Katika kitu kinacho angusha wanaume wengi katika suala la kutombana ni mawazo na akili kutokuwa katika kazi na jambo ulifanyalo....
Unashauriwa wakati wa kutombana hakikisha akili yako unaiweka sehemu moja hata kama una mhisi mwenzako vibaya jaribu kuweka mawazo ya tofauti zenu kando na wote akili zenu zifikirie kitu kimoja na sio kila mtu kuwa na wasiwasi na mwenzie
°°°wanaume wengi wanatabia ya kujishuku ya kuwa yeye anamboo ndogo kutokana na kuwaza hivyo huwa wanatoka mchezoni bila ya wao kujua nini tatizo....jiamini ya kuwa wewe mboo yako ndio inamridhisha mwenzio
☆ ☆ madhara ya kuwa na mawazo/wasiwasi wakati wa kungonoka (kutombana) ni mwanaume kuwahi kumwaga/kupiz na kushindwa kuendelea na mchezo 
Na kwa mwanamke ni kupoteza mood ya kukaa mchezoni....
Tuliza akili yako na uongeze kujiamini na utafurahia na utaona raha ya kutombana

★pia unatakiwa umtambue mwenza wako anapendelea vitu gani wakati wakungonoka na style gani anazipenda sio kwa vile wewe unapenda kifo cha mende au leggs on shoulder


Udhani naye atakuwa anapenda hivyo hapana.
Itakuwa vizuri kama utamuuliza na kuelezana ukweli ni stayle gani anazipenda 
●●ukweli ni kwamba wanawake kuna stayle wanazipendelea sana kwa sababu huwa zinawafanya wasikie uzito wa mboo yako na ukunwaji wa kuta za ndani ya kuma vizuri..
Zipo baadhi ya style ambazo wanawake wengi huzipendelea kama hizi:-

★★ wanawake hupendelea sana kuanzwa kwa kushikwa shikwa miili yao vizuri katika kila kona kisha umnyonye matiti yake aridhike alaf uanze mnyonya kuma yake na mkundu kama utaweza 
Tazama video hapo chini



Kisha unaweza mpea koni ya asili ailambe na kuinyonya atakavyo kisha unaweza amua ni stayle gani anaipendelea 
Stayle zipo kama ifuatavyo
★★kuna stand tall style 
Hii style ni tamu sana na wanawake huipenda kwa vile mboo huwa ina wakuna g-spot vizuri na kumfanya ajisikie yuko paradise..kaijarbu atakwambia tazama video hapo chini
            CLICK HERE kuiona hiyo video.HD                
★★ kuna stayle hii inaitwa REVERSE COWGIRL ambayo wanawake huipenda na wanaume
Wanaume huipenda kwa sababu inawaonyesha uzuri wa mpenzi wake kwa nyuma na kumuongezea yeye hashiki zaidi..... pia style hii huwafanya wanawake kusikia utamu wa mboo yako ikisugua kuta za kuma side zote na ikigusa g-spot vizuri kwa utaratibu na ndio maana style hii lazima mwanamke awahi kukojoa kwa haraka zaidi kama akiifanya vizuri
Tazama video hapo chini..CLICK HERE kuiona hii video HD 

★★kuna style hii inayo pendwa na wanawake wote dunia na si nyingine ni DOGGY STYLE hii style humfanya mwanamke asikie uzito wa mboo yako ikisugua kuta za ndani ya kuma vizuri na pia hisikia raha zaidi pale ajisukuma na kuisikia mboo ikimgusa misuli ya nyuma ndani ya uke wake vile vile style hii humafana aisikie mboo ikimsugua g-spot kwa uzito zaidi na kumpea rahaaaa zaidi
Tazama video hapo chini


                 CLICK HERE kuiona hiyo video HD

★★kuna style hii ambayo pia wanaawake huipenda na wanaume pia ina itwa LEGS ON SHOULDER style hii wanaume wengi huipenda kwa vile anasikia utamu wa kuma vizuri na nikutokana na kuma huwa imebana vizuri na wanaume kusikia raha ya kutomba zaidi
Ila style hii ni vizuri ukamtomba kwa uangalifu kwa sababu kizazi huwa kinaajivutaa mbele zaidi na madhara ya kuguswa kizazi ni makubwa....
Stayle hii video yake ipo hapo juu


★★kuna style inayo pendwa na wanaume wavivu na wanawake wavivu 
KIFO CHA MENDE hii haina haja ya kuiongelea maana kila mtu anaijua na anaifanya kila mara tazama video ya kidume cha kweli kikitaka geuza kizazi

                CLICK HERE kuiona hiyo video mp4
★★kuna hii huku uswahilini tunaiita KIJIKO style hii humfanya mwanamke ajisikie burudaniii na raha sana wakati ukiwa unamtomba hard maana mboo huwa inamkuna kuta za juu na za chini penda sana mtia style hii mara kwa mara
Tazama video hapo chini

           CLICK HERE kuiona hiyo video .mp4 
★★ kuna stayle hii inaitwa COWGIRL ambayo wanaume wengi na wanawake wengi wameizoea kuifanya kwa kujionyesha wanajua kukata kiuno ni style nzuri pia endapo dem atajua kujiset kwenye pozisheni nzuri wakati wakukatika ili mboo ikae vizuri ndani ya kuma isitoke nje wakati wa kukatika
Tazama video chini 



Nimeandika sana usingizi umenishika nitaendelea na stayle zingi 8 zilizo bakia next week
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Tyra Banks Says Models “Have to be slimmer than slim”, Be Social Media Savvy & Compete to Make It Big Today

Supermodel, Tyra Banks has since made it known that after her exit from the runway, she will now spend more time inspiring and coaching young model hopefuls through America’s Next Top Model and more. One way she is definitely doing that is often sharing inspiring stories about her career, role models and inspiration in general via her social media pages.

Her latest topic? The pressure young models of today are under to get skinny, compete to get jobs, be social media savvy and more. She posted this as part of a ThrowBack photo showing a much younger version of herself backstage at a YSL show.

She posted;

Models have so much pressure today. They have to look good on AND off the set. They have to arrive backstage at fashion shows looking and dressed as if they are already ON a runway. They have to be slimmer than slim, skinnier than skinny. They have to compete with actresses, recording artists and reality stars for magazine covers and ad campaigns. They have to have tons of followers on social media to book top notch jobs. And they have to do selfies that make them look relatable, but not TOO relatable, because then people may comment that they don’t understand “Why the heck us THAT girl a friggin model??!!!!“

Models have been said to think and re-think their social media posts so as not to seem ‘un-model like’ for designers and brands who want to use them for campaigns, shows etc.

She continued;

When I was a young model, yeah, we had to think about our weight, but not like today. I think I was a size 6, not a size 0. And backstage at fashion shows, I looked like this photo you’re looking at. Yep, that’s a teenage me right before a YSL show was about to start in sneakers, plaid flannel and bad jeans. Mr. Yves Saint Laurent could care less how I looked when I arrived to his show But when I hit his stage, he expected excellence. And I made sure I delivered that every time I was chosen to walk his amazing runway.

I’m sending love and hugs to all working, aspiring and super models worldwide. You all have lots to live up to. And I’m here cheering for you every single day. Strong Girls. #ThrowBackThursday #ThrowBackTyTy.

We love Tyra’s more inspiring side!

Photo Credit: @TyraBanks (Instagram)

UMEINYAKA HIYO? BEYONCE SOON KUDAKA MIMBA TENA

Diva wa muziki wa Pop, Beyonce Knowles.

New York, Marekani

DIVA wa muziki wa Pop, Beyonce Knowles huenda akashika mimba hivi karibuni baada ya kuweka wazi kuwa yupo mbioni kupata mtoto wa pili na mumewe ambaye pia ni mwanamuziki wa Hip Hop, Shawn Carter ‘Jay-Z’.

Kwa mujibu wa Jarida la In Touch linaweka wazi kuwa Beyonce (33) ambaye ni mama wa mtoto mmoja, Blue Ivy (3), kwa miezi kadhaa yupo katika kutafuta mtoto mwingine lakini anachohofia ni malezi juu ya mtoto huyo ajaye.

“Kwa miezi miwili sasa anamtafuta mwanamke sahihi wa kuweza kumlea mtoto wake ajaye. Tayari wapo katika hatua za mwanzo na mumewe za kutafuta mtoto,” liliandika jarida hilo.